What relationship is it showing? connectives
The Short Answer
A connective joins two ideas and shows how they relate — adding, contrasting, giving a cause, or placing something in time. Choosing the right one means choosing the right relationship, so the question is about meaning rather than grammar, and the relationship comes from the surrounding passage or from the question itself. Which kind you choose also decides the sentence: when and, but or or joins two main clauses the sentence is compound; although, because and until introduce a subordinate clause, which makes it complex.
What is a connective question?
Your child is given a sentence with a gap between two ideas, and a choice of words to fill it.
Several of the options will fit grammatically, and each makes the sentence say something different. Only one shows the relationship the passage calls for, which is why this is a question about meaning wearing grammar's clothes.
That relationship comes from somewhere: the sentences around the gap, or the question itself. A sentence on its own can often be read more than one way. The hall was crowded and Bilal spoke confidently is a perfectly good sentence; it reports two facts side by side. Swap in but and it becomes a sentence about confidence in spite of the crowd. Neither is wrong as English. The question is which one the writer means.
Name the relationship first
Before looking at the options at all, ask what the two halves are doing to each other. There are four common answers.
| Relationship | What it does | Words |
|---|---|---|
| Addition | Puts two ideas together | and, also, as well as |
| Contrast | Sets them against each other | but, although, however, whereas |
| Cause | One brings about the other | because, so, since, therefore |
| Time | Places them in order | before, after, until, when, while |
Naming the relationship usually removes most of the options in a second, and it stops the commonest error, which is choosing a word that sounds comfortable and says something the passage never claimed.
The diagram shows the simplest case, where the question names the relationship itself: it asks for a contrast, so the choice is made before the options are read.

Can you show me a worked example?
Which kind decides the sentence type
There is a second thing these words do, and questions sometimes ask about it instead.
Coordinating connectives — and, but, or — join things of equal weight. Those can be single words (salt and pepper) or phrases (over the wall or through the gate), and a sentence stays simple when that is all they join. When one joins two clauses that could each stand alone, it makes a compound sentence.
Subordinating connectives — although, because, until, while, if — introduce a clause that could not stand alone. That makes a complex sentence. Some of these words have other jobs too — in until Friday there is no clause after until — so check what follows the word in the sentence in front of you.
So the engine failed but Nadia repaired it is compound, and although the engine failed, Nadia repaired it is complex. Both show contrast; they build different sentences.
Where do pupils lose marks?
Choosing by sound, which produces a sentence that reads well and means something else.
Reversing cause and effect. Ola kept practising because her fingers ached makes the aching the reason for carrying on, which is rarely what is meant, and it is an easy slip when reading quickly.
Ignoring what the connective does to the sentence type, when that is what the question was really asking.
Try it yourself
Each question names the relationship to show. Several of the words would make a grammatical sentence; only one shows that relationship.
- Choose the word that shows a contrast. The hall was crowded ___ Bilal spoke confidently. (and / but / because)
- Choose the word that shows the order in time. We packed the car ___ the rain started. (before / although / so)
- Choose the word that shows when the practising stopped. Ola kept practising ___ her fingers ached. (until / because / or)
- Choose the word that shows cause and effect. The engine had failed, ___ Nadia repaired it. (so / although / until)
- The hall was crowded ___ Bilal spoke confidently. Which of these words would make that sentence complex rather than compound: and, but, although?
- but. Contrast means the two halves pull against each other, and 'but' is the only one of the three that says so. 'And' also makes a good sentence, but it adds the two facts together rather than setting them against each other; 'because' would make the crowd the cause of the confidence.
- before. It is the only one of the three that places the two events in time. 'Although' also makes a sentence, but it shows a contrast rather than an order, and 'so' would make the packing the cause of the rain.
- until. Time again, marking the point at which the practising stopped. 'Because' would give a cause rather than a time — and an unlikely cause, since aching fingers are a reason to stop.
- so. Cause and effect, in that order: the failure led to the repair. 'Although' would show a contrast instead, and 'until' would make the repair a point in time rather than a consequence.
- although. It introduces a clause that cannot stand alone — 'although Bilal spoke confidently' — which makes the sentence complex. And and but would each join two clauses that could stand alone, which makes a compound sentence.
How much practice does this type need at home?
Two sentences, three joins. Give your child a pair of short sentences and ask them to connect them with and, then but, then although — and after each one, ask what changed.
It takes a minute and it makes the point better than any explanation: the connective is not glue. It is carrying an argument, and choosing the wrong one changes what the sentence says.
Free: an English workbook
Questions across the English question types, with the method printed at the top and full answers at the back. One workbook for the whole strand, not a sheet per question type.
Frequently Asked Questions
How does my child choose between connectives that all fit grammatically?
By naming the relationship first, before looking at the options. Are these two ideas being added together, set against each other, explained as cause and effect, or placed in time? The sentences around the gap, or the wording of the question, show which is wanted. Once that is named, most options disappear. Choosing by how it sounds is the trap, because several will sound fine and each says something different.
What is the difference between and, but and although?
And adds, but contrasts, although also contrasts — and the difference between the last two is grammatical rather than about meaning. When but joins two clauses that could each stand alone, the result is a compound sentence. Although introduces a clause that could not, giving a complex one. So a question asking about sentence type is often really asking which kind of connective is in play.
Are connectives and conjunctions the same thing?
Close enough for the 11+, with one distinction worth knowing. Conjunction is the word class — and, but, because. Connective is the broader job, and it includes phrases such as 'on the other hand' and 'as a result' that link ideas across sentences rather than within one. If a question asks for a word class, the answer is conjunction.
How do we practise this at home?
Give your child two short sentences and ask them to join them three different ways. 'The hall was crowded. Bilal spoke confidently.' With and, with but, with although. Then ask what changed each time. That is the whole question type, and it teaches the thing that matters — that the connective is carrying meaning, not just holding two halves together.
Sources
- GL Assessment — 11+ familiarisation materials and question type descriptions Published 2025.
- Clever Clogs Academy — our own Year 4 and Year 5 lesson records, Winslow Published September 2025 to July 2026.
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